Too weak! All three Dame products I bought were lacking sufficient power to do anything for me. Even the strongest motor in the Com is WAY too weak for me.
I bought three different toys to try and I am really disappointed. The toys have such good reviews across the board- I can't believe how weak they all are. I bought the Kip and Eva first, which were so weak I wanted a refund immediately, but instead was only able to get a 'reimbursement' on a gift card.
Hesitant, I purchased the Com, the strongest motor they make, with that reimbursement. All three products were too weak for me- It didn't seem like the com even had a different motor than the smaller toys- but that's what Dame says..
All three products were not at all pleasurable but felt more like a very soft, unwanted tease/torture device due to the lack of power. None of them got me anywhere close and brought on super frustration. Especially after spending $200!
I have never spent more than $20 for a small, battery powered, silver bullet - with which I blast off in seconds sometimes. When that finally died on me I thought I might invest in something 'better'. I researched so many pleasure product blogs for small bullet like vibrators and kept seeing Dame products on the 'best reviewed' lists. I wanted to support a small start-up and try out the uniquely designed hands free Eva vibrator, so I purchased the Eva and the Kip, which totaled $202.
When they arrived I opened them and turned them on in my hand at first and was immediately suspicious, because they didn't feel as powerful as my once favorite $20 bullet. I charged them to full and still was not convinced they were going to do it for me, and sure enough they definitely did not.
I kept thinking I had not turned it all the way up yet, but it was on the highest setting, so no matter how many times I pressed the up button trying to find more power, the intensity just wasn't there. I can't describe how disappointed I was laying there unfulfilled after spending so much time and money trying to make a good purchase. Needless to say I emailed Dame to ask about a refund and then went out and purchased a $20 bullet.
Unfortunately, unlike other adult toy companies, Dame does not offer refunds on their toys- only reimbursement through a gift card. Their first response to my inquiry about a refund because of the weak power in the motors was to ask me if I tried using the toys in varied positions and angles. I was cross at their condescension. I informed them that I had read all of the recommendations about how to use the toys and had done my due diligence in my attempts to make them work for me, and asked for a refund again- because I didn't trust that my $200 would be well spent on another one of their products. They told me they do not offer refunds and to use the gift card to try out one of their toys equipped with their strongest motor, so I agreed and ordered the Com - a supposedly high powered wand which was nowhere near what I was originally wanting to purchase in the first place.
The Com felt as weak as the Kip and Eva products were. I wanted to throw the thing against the wall. Instead, I went to a different online shop and begrudgingly bought an $80 bullet vibrator that was listed at #1 for strength on every review list. I gave these Dame products away to someone who may be able to find joy with them- I hope.
I am only writing this review to try and save someone else the time and money that I wasted. I am not trying to talk smack- I genuinely think others should know that all the great reviews may not mean much when it comes to the power /strength of Dame products. I thought the negative reviews I read regarding motor power were the exception and ignored them - trust the reviews that say the strength is not there.
Sorry Dame- I really wanted you to be as great as you seemed and support your store. I wish you would reevaluate your power scale listings, your refund policy, and revamp your motors. A $20 bullet should not be more powerful than your most powerful $125 wand. (Now $89, five months later?)
I wish my purchase had been a better investment for me. I understand that many people may love Dame products and are happy with what they can do, but honestly I feel they could create better products with more strength, especially given the prices they are charging for their products. I wish I could have supported them but alas, my business and recommendations have gone elsewhere.