Dame Products reviews and discussion

Dame is amazing. A perfect example of a brand that puts their money where their mouth is. Not only are the products great, but they also prioritize education on sexuality/intimacy, care about the materials used in their products and sustainability, and have a clear agenda to make sex a less taboo topic. I saw they recently added a line item on their invoices for a "$5 Trump Tariff," which is so important to spread the word on how that economic practice can impact businesses that are doing important work. Dame also has fantastic branding/marketing and works with some incredible illustrators (s/o Tomato Season - love your work). ANYWAY, I have the Aer and the Zee. Both have lasted several years each, and pack a lot of punch :) would love to try the others!

I tried multiple vibes from this brand and didn’t really enjoy any of them. I also didn’t enjoy the lube. However, I do really enjoy the pillo (wedge) and use it regularly. It’s sturdy and the covers are easy to remove for washing.

The Arousal Serum is Amazing! helps a lot when it's difficult to get into the "mood" feels good, cooling and tingling sensation.

They have no discretion. If you purchase products from this company, be warned, they will send you promotional postcards with pictures of sex toys on them. I live in a very small town and I was mortified. My postal workers know me. When I contacted Dame, including a picture of what was sent to me, they sent a half hearted apology and said it was one of their "marketing partners", despite their name being on the postcard.

Summary: Too weak! All three Dame products I bought were lacking sufficient power to do anything for me. Even the strongest motor in the Com is WAY too weak for me. I bought three different toys to try and I am really disappointed. The toys have such good reviews across the board- I can't believe how weak they all are. I bought the Kip and Eva first, which were so weak I wanted a refund immediately, but instead was only able to get a 'reimbursement' on a gift card. Hesitant, I purchased the Com, the strongest motor they make, with that reimbursement. All three products were too weak for me- It didn't seem like the com even had a different motor than the smaller toys- but that's what Dame says.. All three products were not at all pleasurable but felt more like a very soft, unwanted tease/torture device due to the lack of power. None of them got me anywhere close and brought on super frustration. Especially after spending $200! More Details: I have never spent more than $20 for a small, battery powered, silver bullet - with which I blast off in seconds sometimes. When that finally died on me I thought I might invest in something 'better'. I researched so many pleasure product blogs for small bullet like vibrators and kept seeing Dame products on the 'best reviewed' lists. I wanted to support a small start-up and try out the uniquely designed hands free Eva vibrator, so I purchased the Eva and the Kip, which totaled $202. When they arrived I opened them and turned them on in my hand at first and was immediately suspicious, because they didn't feel as powerful as my once favorite $20 bullet. I charged them to full and still was not convinced they were going to do it for me, and sure enough they definitely did not. I kept thinking I had not turned it all the way up yet, but it was on the highest setting, so no matter how many times I pressed the up button trying to find more power, the intensity just wasn't there. I can't describe how disappointed I was laying there unfulfilled after spending so much time and money trying to make a good purchase. Needless to say I emailed Dame to ask about a refund and then went out and purchased a $20 bullet. Unfortunately, unlike other adult toy companies, Dame does not offer refunds on their toys- only reimbursement through a gift card. Their first response to my inquiry about a refund because of the weak power in the motors was to ask me if I tried using the toys in varied positions and angles. I was cross at their condescension. I informed them that I had read all of the recommendations about how to use the toys and had done my due diligence in my attempts to make them work for me, and asked for a refund again- because I didn't trust that my $200 would be well spent on another one of their products. They told me they do not offer refunds and to use the gift card to try out one of their toys equipped with their strongest motor, so I agreed and ordered the Com - a supposedly high powered wand which was nowhere near what I was originally wanting to purchase in the first place. The Com felt as weak as the Kip and Eva products were. I wanted to throw the thing against the wall. Instead, I went to a different online shop and begrudgingly bought an $80 bullet vibrator that was listed at #1 for strength on every review list. I gave these Dame products away to someone who may be able to find joy with them- I hope. I am only writing this review to try and save someone else the time and money that I wasted. I am not trying to talk smack- I genuinely think others should know that all the great reviews may not mean much when it comes to the power /strength of Dame products. I thought the negative reviews I read regarding motor power were the exception and ignored them - trust the reviews that say the strength is not there. Sorry Dame- I really wanted you to be as great as you seemed and support your store. I wish you would reevaluate your power scale listings, your refund policy, and revamp your motors. A $20 bullet should not be more powerful than your most powerful $125 wand. (Now $89, five months later?) I wish my purchase had been a better investment for me. I understand that many people may love Dame products and are happy with what they can do, but honestly I feel they could create better products with more strength, especially given the prices they are charging for their products. I wish I could have supported them but alas, my business and recommendations have gone elsewhere.

Lmao I am not attaching a photo. But this is a great product. Gone are the days of the old bullet. It’s a simple design with a few basic speed settings but it does the job and it’s soft plus easy to wash.

Very excited to try my first Dame product- I've always been a bit intimidated by their other products (but also the high price). So trying a more classic vibrator option, The Dip, and at 50% off was a no brainer. I love the simple and sleek design, easy to figure out how to use. I personally like the feel of my Maude vibrator a bit better, which is why I give it 4 instead of 5 stars, but I'm very happy with this product as well.

Got the Dip Vibrator and was very pleasantly surprised. This is a super affordable vibrator and it has a nice silicone feel. Rechargeable and very quiet. It's the perfect size for my *ahem* purposes. And, it worked really well. I'll let you be the judge of what you think that means. IYKYK

Great product- was very impressed by the size and sleekness. It's cute in design and works great. With 6 different speeds, it's water proof and easy to charge and store I have no complaints! I want to try more of Dame in the future!

My favorite vibe so far (and also one of the cheapest). I had the original dip for a while and it was superb, but it died after 1.5 yrs (just stopped working randomly). The customer service at Dame was great and got me a replacement very quickly- this was the dip 2.0 which is also excellent, highly recommend!

The settings were more than powerful enough (maybe just not the first one). Soft, simple. And 50% off promo at Target, why wouldn’t you give it a try?

I've tried a few of their products and the Pom is amazing. It is perfect by itself or with your partner. You will not be disappointed!

Love this brand! High quality and perfect for anyone to try!

Superb product quality and ease of use. Very worth the price.

I really enjoy my dame products. I would say across the board!!the oils and serums are amazing and the personal toys are even better!

I have 3 of these vibrators and I maybe want more? How much better of a review can you get! I never realized I needed more than one but I'm hooked! They aren't just for solo play either!

This company is the epitome of sexual health that is not victim of the male gaze! I first bought the Kip in the color lavender which was my first venture into sexual pleasure toys ever, and DAME products have converted me. I get why women love these things! I love the way they are engineered, designed, and they are absolutely worth the money! I've had mine for two and half years now, and it looks and works like the day I first got it. It is more expensive than some of the other vibrators out there, but for the quality they provide, the money is justified. The vibrators are also easy to use as the website has the cutest video guides which is saying a lot because sometimes I look at vibrators and have no idea what they are suppose to do.

The POM is fantastic if you are bothered by louder toys. Very quiet but still rumbly, love how flexible it is as well. Cute color options too!

Very affordable product and good quality. Pros: the surface is very smooth, buttons are easy to use, it is rechargeable, and has a good amount of power. The only thing (which I haven't experienced a problem with this particular brand) is that rechargeable devices sometimes need pre-emptive planning. I would highly recommend this product.

Like the look of all brand's products. I don’t know what I expected but my tool exceeded all expectations. It fits so perfect in the hand. Easy on the wrist and looks beautiful and sleek.